Sometimes it is that snide comment that spurs you on to reflect on life. Love is a wonderful motivator, so is technology and so it would seem is hurt. When I was told yesterday:
You seem to think that, through your “uniqueness”,
you are in some way superior just because you are different. Here’s a
little secret, most often a need to be so “different” is just a
pitiful cry for attention to get noticed by anyone in any way.
I first had a little sook because hey I never professed to be unique, “I am unique, just like everybody else” but then I reflected on this writers motivation and then reflected on my life and where I am going and decided that this comment above really is not mean but a reflection of where we are in society.

In society we like boxes, we absolultely love them. If we can label it and package it then it is fine and dandy.
When I went to school I was put into a box as a “Nerd” and sometimes eventhough I dread to remember as a “goth”
When I first went into work in local government we did Myers Briggs and I was given a box ENFJ. I subscribe to some of it but does that box make me? No
When I started my current job I was HR profiled using DISC and came up a dominant influencer (LOL again not too far off centre)
These boxes in my life were given to me,I dont remember ever choosing them. I have had all sorts of boxes throughout my life and I am sure people will continue to box and label me and others for some time to come. Graham Wegner recently spoke about the boxes he is given by staff at his school and how he uses this as positive. I have noticed recently the box of “edtech” has become popular and these boxes are getting together to find new ways of containing thoughts within the larger box.
I know labels and boxes are a part of life it allows people to define and grapple with things they do not understand.. People may not have experienced or encountered alcoholism, depression, homosexuality, or many other experiences but a label allows us to classify that information so we can make some sort of sense of the things we are scared of or know little about. Boxes also keep us secure in the knowledge that we have an identity a place where we can build box communities with others.
So enough of my own reflection what about schools?
Surely as a leading edge environment in the 21st century the box walls are being broken down??
Students and teachers see each other as one? Because aren’t we all learners?
At the moment there are a few trail blazers out there trying to break down boxes create flat classrooms and begin to embrace differences whether they be nerds, colour, distance, size, race or language. I heard someone say this week that “it is really hard to create something unique” Yes it is and it is when that uniqueness occurs that walls begin to break down and others then gain the empowerment to have a go at breaking down a box of their own or two. I want to name and acclaim a few of these trail blazers as they don’t seem to be out there blowing their own trumpets and anyone breaking down walls deserves a clap at some stage. I know there is heaps more and I encourage you to comment and add more:
- Kim Cofino for working beyond the walls and seeking feedback and collaboration
- Sherryl Nussbaum Beach for reaching beyond her school, district, country about out to others on such a regular basis with every project she is part of.
- Judy O’Connell for understanding that libraries are not just book boxes
- Dean Groom for refusing to accept a deficit model in his staff and working outside the mould, and working outside of the box that is a school and is Australia.
- Chris Lehman for breaking boxes in schools from the top, this is hardly ever done !
SO what does this mean for me? It means that I will keep trying to unbox my thoughts and continue to talk to as many people as possible and really make an effort to make my own decisions before getting out my labelmaker. It means that when I work with students I will try and model the same “box cutting” attitude. It means that when I am put back in my box I will jump up and have another go!
I would love others to tell me about their experience of boxing and labelling and the affect it has had on them or their schools. I am sure you were or know a student who didn’t fit the mould and sat in that box all by themselves. I am also sure there are a few of you out there that have helped students break free of labels and move towards indivuduality.
I would also love to hear from people who have thoughts about a life with no boxes? Imagine you had no label and your children had no label how would life be different?
I am currently pondering this thought and will get back to whoever reads my rants at some stage as to where I am with this.
I found this quote today and it resonated with this post and I thought you may like to ponder it as well.
Be daring, be different, be impractical, be anything that will assert integrity of purpose and imaginative vision against the play-it-safers, the creatures of the commonplace, the slaves of the ordinary.
Cecil Beaton